There are so many remarkable
things about the victim’s statement in the Brock Turner case it is hard to know
where to start.
One clear starting point is to
read it. Read all of it. Right to the end. If you have children, give it to them to
read. Daughters and, most especially,
sons. This is as essential reading as any textbook a schoolchild will ever see. It is a very long document but no
word is wasted. The length of time it
takes to read a mere thousandth of a fraction of the time its author will have
to live with the effect of what was done to her.
Taking what is not yours involves
the expropriation of power. Victims do
not lose just that which is taken but, much more significantly, their
power. When sex is taken victims lose
their bodily integrity and such a total loss, such complete powerlessness, is
unimaginable to those that have not experienced it.
Trying to render experiences such
as these into a coherent narrative is a superhuman task. A trite expression of the social media age
is: there are no words. And true it is
that no words can really communicate from one human to another the total
devastation affected by the theft of bodily and sexual autonomy. However that has not deterred this truly exceptional
woman from making a painstakingly considered and finely wrought attempt.
An experience which would prompt
animalistic anguish in anyone has nonetheless not prevented this extraordinary
person from crafting a document of unrelenting reasonableness and power.
To an outsider familiar with
American jail sentences of 100 years plus the six months imposed on Brock
Turner seems a mystifyingly inadequate punishment. But, as the victim observes, prison sentences
are served. The reality is that the truest
and wholly deserved punishment for this still very young man is that whatever
he achieves in his life these twelve pages of denunciation and defiance will be
his epitaph.
I salute her courage and her power.
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